Relapses don’t schedule themselves, and symptoms don’t show up one at a time. If you live with a relapsing-remitting condition (think MS most commonly, but also migraine, IBD flare-ups, lupus flares, or bipolar cycling), you know the drill: good weeks, then a wall. You want tools that help right now, but also carry through remission. That’s where music therapy often earns its place-lower stress reactivity, steadier mood, better gait timing, gentler pain-and sometimes, just a sense of control.
Let’s set expectations. Music won’t replace disease-modifying treatment. It won’t halt a relapse. But well-structured music-based work can reduce anxiety, smooth breathing, support motor timing, and improve fatigue management. The evidence is decent for anxiety, mood, and gait in neurological conditions, and promising-but smaller-for MS. You’ll get clear steps you can start today, what to track, how to find a qualified therapist, and how to fit this into your care plan in 2025.
- TL;DR: Use music deliberately: calming audio when symptoms surge, rhythmic cues for walking, and short active sessions to lift mood and stamina.
- What it helps: anxiety, pain perception, fatigue pacing, gait timing, sleep onset, and breathing regulation during flares.
- Evidence check: moderate for anxiety/pain; growing but smaller trials for MS gait/fatigue; strong for gait in stroke/Parkinson’s (methods adapt to MS).
- Safety: avoid overstimulation during sensory sensitivity, pick safe volume, and loop your clinician in-this complements, not replaces, your meds.
- Practical: 10-20 minutes, 1-2 times daily in relapses; 30-45 minutes, 2-3 times weekly in remission; track 2-3 symptoms with simple scales.
Why and when to use music therapy in relapsing-remitting care
Most people click this topic for two reasons: you want symptom relief that you can turn on fast during a flare, and you want a habit that keeps paying off in remission. Music hits both. It can nudge your nervous system toward balance (lowering sympathetic arousal), organize movement through rhythm, and make hard rehab work more doable by dialing down perceived effort.
What the science says-without the fluff. For psychological symptoms, multiple randomized trials show that structured music-based interventions reduce anxiety and depressive symptoms in medical populations. A 2023 Cochrane review on music interventions for anxiety in health care settings reported small to moderate reductions in state anxiety. For pain, a 2016 Cochrane review found small-to-moderate reductions in pain intensity and analgesic use across conditions. For neurological rehab, rhythmic auditory stimulation (RAS) consistently improves gait speed and stride symmetry in stroke and Parkinson’s disease, with smaller MS trials suggesting benefits to walking speed and fatigue. A 2018 meta-analysis of RAS across neurological disorders reported moderate improvements in gait parameters; MS studies were fewer but positive.
Bottom line for relapsing-remitting conditions like MS:
- Anxiety, stress, and sleep: best-supported domains. Calmer breathing and reduced muscle tension make flares more manageable.
- Gait and balance: promising, especially for timing and stride regularity using rhythmic cues. Expect incremental, not dramatic, gains.
- Fatigue and mood: feasible improvements when you combine graded activity with short, enjoyable music tasks.
- Cognition: music can support attention and processing speed in short blocks, but evidence is early; treat as a productivity aid, not a cure.
Mechanisms in plain terms:
- Timing and entrainment: your motor system likes to sync to a beat; that steadies gait and reduces the “thinking” load of walking.
- Autonomic shift: slow tempos and predictable patterns help flip your body from fight-or-flight toward rest-and-digest.
- Dopamine and salience: enjoyable music boosts motivation and makes rehab reps feel easier.
- Breathing pacing: music can set a comfortable rate (e.g., 6 breaths/min) for dyspnea or anxiety spikes.
Where this fits in your week:
- Relapse days: quick hits-guided listening for calm, breathing with music for 5 minutes, and safe RAS for short walks at home.
- Remission weeks: longer sessions to build capacity-30 minutes of active music-making, RAS walks outside, or group sessions.
Here’s a compact evidence snapshot you can use to set realistic goals and talk with your clinician:
Symptom Target | Evidence Quality (2025) | Typical Protocol | Expected Change (4-8 weeks) | Source / Year |
---|---|---|---|---|
Anxiety (state) | Moderate (multiple RCTs across medical settings) | 20-30 min receptive listening, 60-80 bpm, predictable dynamics, 3x/wk | Small-moderate reduction on STAI | Cochrane Review, 2023 |
Pain perception | Moderate (mixed conditions) | Receptive listening + imagery 20 min, 3-5x/wk | Small-moderate pain intensity drop; less analgesic use | Cochrane Review, 2016 |
Gait timing (neurological) | Moderate for stroke/Parkinson’s; limited but positive in MS | RAS: metronome/music at cadence, 15-20 min, 3x/wk | Faster gait, better stride regularity | Ghai et al. meta-analysis, 2018; small MS RCTs 2015-2022 |
Fatigue (MS) | Emerging (small trials) | Graded active music tasks + pacing, 20-30 min, 2-3x/wk | Small improvements on MFIS | MS rehab trials, 2017-2022 |
Sleep onset | Moderate (insomnia studies) | 45 min playlists of slow, familiar tracks nightly | Faster sleep onset, better subjective sleep quality | Systematic reviews, 2018-2021 |
Names to know if you want to read more: Cochrane Reviews on music for anxiety and pain; American Academy of Neurology rehab guidance for MS symptoms (2020s updates); meta-analyses of rhythmic auditory stimulation in neurological rehab; and clinical trials on music-supported therapy in MS. These are rigorous sources clinicians recognize.
Safety quick-checks you should follow:
- If you have sound sensitivity, migraines, or tinnitus during a flare, start with very low volume and simple, predictable music. No headphones if they trigger headaches.
- History of mania or hypomania? Avoid fast, highly stimulating tracks during mood elevation. Use slow, calming pieces only.
- Rare but real: musicogenic seizures exist. If you have epilepsy, clear your plan with your neurologist and avoid known triggers.
- Never swap prescribed meds or rehab for music. Treat this as a force multiplier.

Build your music plan for relapse and remission
Use this like a checklist and tune it to your body. You don’t need special gear to start-your phone and a notebook work.
Step 1: set one goal per symptom cluster
- Anxiety spike: “I want my breathing steady in 5 minutes.”
- Gait wobble: “I want a smoother 5-minute walk indoors.”
- Fatigue crash: “I want a 10-minute energy lift without overdoing it.”
- Sleep delay: “I want to fall asleep 10 minutes sooner.”
Step 2: pick the right tool for the moment
- Receptive listening (low effort): sit or lie down, eyes soft, volume low. Good for anxiety, pain, sleep.
- Active music-making (moderate effort): hum, sing softly, tap, or play a simple instrument. Good for mood and fatigue management.
- Rhythmic auditory stimulation (RAS) for gait: walk to a steady beat at your natural cadence or slightly slower during a flare.
- Breathing with music: 6 breaths per minute using a slow track; inhale 4-5 seconds, exhale 5-6 seconds.
Step 3: use a mini decision tree
- If dizziness, nausea, or sound sensitivity is high → choose 5 minutes of simple drone or nature sounds, then reassess.
- If anxiety is high but sound is tolerable → 10 minutes of slow, familiar music (60-75 bpm), no lyrics at first.
- If legs feel unsteady but you can stand safely → RAS at a safe cadence, inside the house, for 5 minutes. No headphones; use a speaker so you can hear your surroundings.
- If you feel flat or foggy in remission → 15 minutes of active singing or drumming to medium-tempo tracks you enjoy.
Step 4: build two playlists (start simple)
- Calm: 8-10 tracks, 60-80 bpm, predictable, low dynamic range. Instrumental first; add gentle vocals later if you like.
- Move: 8-10 tracks at your comfortable walking cadence. Most adults sit around 90-110 beats per minute; measure yours by counting steps for 15 seconds and multiplying by 4.
Step 5: session structure you can repeat
- Relapse mode (10-20 minutes): 3 minutes breathing with music, 5-10 minutes receptive listening or gentle humming, 5 minutes RAS walk if safe.
- Remission mode (30-45 minutes): 10 minutes warm-up listening, 15-20 minutes active music-making or RAS walk, 5 minutes cool-down.
Step 6: track the right things (and keep it easy)
- Pick 2-3 metrics: anxiety 0-10, pain 0-10, fatigue (short form of the Modified Fatigue Impact Scale if you have it), gait confidence 0-10.
- Before and after each session, jot numbers in your phone. Weekly, glance at the trend-don’t overanalyze day-to-day noise.
Practical examples you can copy:
- Relapse with anxiety and shallow breathing: sit by a window, feet on floor. Play a 65 bpm piano track. Inhale 4 seconds, exhale 6 seconds, for 5 minutes. Switch to 10 minutes of soft strings. If you feel calmer, hum a comfortable note for the last minute. Stop if dizziness increases.
- Gait timing wobble in a mild flare: walk a 10-meter path at home. Set a metronome app to your natural cadence (count steps x4). Walk 3 minutes to that beat, rest 2 minutes, repeat once. If you get more stable, you can add a familiar song at the same tempo.
- Remission energy rebuild: two days a week, 20 minutes of light hand drumming or ukulele strumming with tracks at 90-100 bpm. Keep effort at “6/10” and stop if fatigue hits 7/10.
- Sleep onset: 45-minute bedtime playlist, volume barely above ambient noise. Same tracks nightly for a week to build a cue. No lyrics if your brain latches onto words.
Heuristics that save you time and frustration:
- If your heart’s racing, pick slower music than you think you need. Let your body come to the music, not the other way around.
- Familiar beats work better under stress. New tracks are for remission, not for crisis moments.
- For gait, start at your natural cadence-do not try to “train faster” in a flare. Quality beats speed.
- If lyrics change your mood too much, go instrumental. Words can hijack attention when you’re anxious or foggy.
- Volume: conversation-level or lower. If you can’t hear someone talking over it, it’s too loud for a flare.
Gear and setup (cheap and effective):
- Phone + small Bluetooth speaker. Speakers feel less invasive than headphones during flares.
- Metronome app with tap tempo. Tap along to your steps to find your walking beat in seconds.
- One light instrument if you enjoy it: tongue drum, ukulele, or a simple hand drum. Not required to see benefits.
Common pitfalls-and how to avoid them:
- Too many variables at once: change one thing per week (tempo, track list, or session length).
- Pushing through fatigue: if fatigue spikes above 7/10 within the session, stop and switch to receptive listening.
- Headphone headaches: switch to a speaker or bone-conduction headphones at low volume.
- Picking music you “should” like: pick what your body actually relaxes to, not what’s fashionable.

Finding help, tracking progress, NZ access, and your questions answered
Working with a qualified music therapist can speed up results and keep you safe. In New Zealand, look for a Registered Music Therapist (RMT) through Music Therapy New Zealand. RMTs are trained to adapt sessions for neurological conditions, including MS. In 2025, typical private session rates run about NZD $90-$160, with group sessions often lower. Some people get part funding through Te Whatu Ora services, community rehab providers, or a Disability Allowance with GP sign-off. If your symptoms relate to injury, ACC may help, but relapsing-remitting conditions like MS are usually outside ACC’s scope.
How to vet a therapist (5-minute email template you can reuse):
- Do you have experience with MS or relapsing-remitting conditions?
- Do you use rhythmic auditory stimulation for gait and pacing strategies for fatigue?
- How do you measure progress? (Look for simple scales and time-bound goals.)
- Can you coordinate with my neurologist/physio?
- Do you offer telehealth or home visits if I’m flaring?
What progress looks like in numbers (aim for 4-8 weeks):
- Anxiety: 2-3 point drop on a 0-10 scale within 10 minutes of sessions, sustained over weeks.
- Fatigue: 10-15% improvement on your weekly average fatigue score; fewer afternoon crashes.
- Gait: steadier cadence on a metronome walk; faster 10-meter walk time by a small margin; fewer stumbles.
- Sleep: 10-15 minutes faster sleep onset; fewer night wakings.
Checklists you can print or copy into your notes app:
Relapse kit
- Calm playlist (10 tracks, 60-80 bpm) downloaded for offline use
- Metronome app with your safe indoor walking tempo saved
- Breathing timing card (inhale 4-5s, exhale 5-6s)
- Low-cost speaker; charger
- Two symptoms to track and a 0-10 scale ready
Remission routine
- Two 30-45 minute sessions scheduled weekly
- One active music block and one RAS walk
- One new track added weekly (not during flares)
- Weekly 5-minute review of your numbers
Mini-FAQ
- Is this just “listening to music”? No. A registered therapist tailors tempo, rhythm, and structure to specific goals like gait timing or breath pacing. You can DIY parts of it, but clinical structure matters.
- Does the genre matter? Only if it changes your arousal in the wrong direction. If calm is the goal, the tempo and predictability matter more than style.
- Can I do this during a severe relapse? Yes, but keep it minimal: low volume, simple sounds, short durations. Prioritize rest and medical care. If sound worsens symptoms, pause.
- Will this interfere with meds? No direct interactions. The main risk is overexertion if you feel too good-stick to time limits and pacing.
- How soon should I expect changes? Often within a session for anxiety and breathing. Gait and fatigue usually improve across weeks.
Troubleshooting by scenario
- Sound sensitivity (hyperacusis/migraine): start with nature sounds or simple drones at very low volume; keep sessions under 5 minutes; no headphones. Increase the session by 1-2 minutes every few days if tolerated.
- Fatigue rebound after a “good” session: you overdid it. Halve the session time next time and stick to easier tempos. Switch to receptive listening for a week.
- Anxiety spikes during a track: stop. Swap to a slower, more predictable piece without vocals. Add a breathing overlay (counting exhales).
- Gait feels worse with a metronome: your target tempo’s off. Re-measure your natural cadence on a good day and match it, or drop 5-10 bpm during flares.
- Can’t stick to the plan: anchor it to existing habits-right after morning meds, or during pre-sleep wind-down. Consistency beats intensity.
Working with your care team
- Share a one-page summary of your music protocol with your neurologist or MS nurse. Include your target tempos and your two tracked metrics.
- If you’re in physio, ask about pairing RAS with gait drills and adding rest intervals to prevent fatigue spikes.
- If mood swings are part of your condition, get your mental health clinician’s input on arousal levels and safe track types.
Local notes for Aotearoa New Zealand (2025)
- Registered Music Therapists (RMT) are listed through Music Therapy New Zealand (MThNZ). Ask for neurological rehab experience.
- Funding: check with your GP about Disability Allowance for ongoing therapy costs; some community rehab services under Te Whatu Ora may include music therapy within multidisciplinary care.
- Group options: community-based sessions can be cheaper and provide social support-useful for mood and fatigue pacing.
A simple, ethical rule to close with: if a track helps you breathe easier, move more smoothly, or sleep sooner-and your numbers show it-keep it. If it doesn’t, drop it. Your plan should feel like it fits your life, not the other way around.